Massage Oils

There are a number of things you can use for massage, but what is most commonly used by professionals is massage oil. There are tons of options available. While there are many products designed for…



2017 Long Beach Gay Pride Parade

Every year for the past dozen years my wife and I make the trek to the Long Beach Gay Pride Parade. We were there again for the 34th edition. Why do I, a heterosexual male,…


Creative Condoms

People use condoms because they need to, not because they want to. There is no question that we need better condoms. The tougher question is in defining just what a better condom is. A number…


Clothing Optional Recreation

It is May, the sun is out, and it is getting warm outdoors. I am a big fan of clothing optional recreation, and now is the time you can begin to spend time outside and…


Sex in 3D – VR Online

This is a continuing column on the developing world of virtual reality porn and other sex related technologies. The author has been reviewing computer software and technology for over 20 years. He was also a…


Practicing Restraint

Spanking is very popular with a lot of couples, but I would not be surprised if bondage was actually much more popular. It does not involve any pain, and it allows you to submit to…


From the Librarian – Bad Books

I am the Librarian for the CenterSEE library, and these are some of the interesting discoveries I am making as I catalog the collection. We just added a fascinating book to our collection titled Let’s…


What a BDSM Club is Really Like

BDSM clubs tend to be quite a bit different from the swing clubs we wrote about in Eyes Wide Open: What Swing Clubs are Really Like. Many of the BDSM clubs do not allow sex…