Sexy New Years 2020

There are events across the country that allow you to celebrate the New Year with varying levels of debauchery. We include events in Las Vegas, New York, Houston, Saint Louis, San Francisco, San Diego, Palm Springs, and Los Angeles.

My wife and I have been doing erotic events for New Years Eve for many years. We have been to large swing events, a dungeon, and many private sex parties to ring in the New Year.

We list a number of swing events, and most are in public hotels where you can be sexy but not pornographic. These are fun sexy events even if you are not a swinger. The after parties get pretty wild, though.

Las Vegas has huge mega-expensive New Year’s Eve parties with superstars. Maybe you can’t wait until the 31st. In that case, Purrfect LV has an Early New Year’s Eve Party on December 29th. This is an event for swingers.  It is at the Foundation Room at the top of Mandalay Bay. There is also an after party in a multi-level suite. 

Rest up for a day, and then on the 31st they have their NYE Black and White Party with a nightclub takeover in the Pegasus Lounge at the Alexis Park Hotel. There are fewer celebrities, but a lot more nudity at the after party in a Megasuite.

Party it up in Las Vegas

Also in Las Vegas at One Love Temple, a clothing optional lifestyle friendly resort, they are having NYE festivities. They are owned by the same folks who run Sea Mountain in Palm Springs, which is also having a big New year’s Eve Party. Better hurry as they are selling out.

Sea Mountain Inn and

Perhaps you are doing it up big in Texas. Houston has the Formal Lingerie Fetish Ball. They offer a full dinner, midnight champagne toast, and midnight breakfast bar, and casino games. This like most of these events, are couples only, of course.

Ring in the New Year in Houston

In New York City you have Adult Socials Leather and Lace Masquerade Ball.  Also in the city, the Bowery Bliss swing club is having a Swing into the New Year event. Manhattan’s largest full service on-premise swinger club offers three floors of fun in this all night party.

Stay up all night at Bowery Bliss in Manhattan

The Boom-Boom Room in Saint Louis is also offering a burlesque New Year’s Eve. It also allows singles, but it is a bit more of a premium event, with a four course dinner,  burlesque show, a DJ for dancing, and all the usual NYE  extras- hats, horns, etc.

In the San Francisco area, there are plenty of swing clubs hosting events, but perhaps you crave something a little less wild and something that allows singles. In that case, you might check out the New Year’s Eve Burlesque Bash. It is at the Uptown Nightclub and is surprisingly inexpensive.

My wife and I are based in Los Angeles, and will be spending the evening in a private setting with very close friends. There are plenty of other things to do in L.A. Dita von Tease holds her New Year’s Gala presenting brand new acts at the Orpheum Theater. My wife heard from her that it is supposed to be a really great performance with new stuff.

Dita von Tease does it again in L.A.

If we did not have the house party, we’d probably go to a swing club. The only one in L.A. right now is Club Joi, and they are having a big on-premise NYE party. If you live near a big city, chances are there is s similar party near you. Use the Google to find what will be an amazing experience. I like the Kasidie site, which promotes many New Year’s Eve events.

We might have also jumped in the car and driven to Palm Springs, about two hours away. We’ve known the owners of Sea Mountain Inn for many years, and they have a great lifestyle friendly facility in Palm Springs with hot mineral water to soak naked in.

Hot water and sexy fun in the desert

If we went about half that distance we could get to Freedom Acres, where they have a New Year’s Eve party that includes a prime rib dinner. This swingers club has been in the Inland Empire for over 38 years.

A slightly longer drive would bring us to San Diego where Plush is having a huge NYE Event for lifestylers where they take over a Marriott.

The entire hotel is yours in San Diego

If BDSM is more to your taste, there is Kane’s Birthday and New Year’s Eve Flesh Fest in North Hollywood at the Lair de Sade. We have done this and they had dancing, so I could say we out dancing at a club while leaving out what went on between the dancing. To use that link you’ll need to sign up for Fetlife, but if you are in the kink community, you already should be signed up. You can use their events calendar to find events all over the country.

Maybe in L.A. you are looking for something for singles that is a little tamer. They have a 60-foot ball drop at midnight at the sixth annual Prohibition NYE party, where L.A.’s Union Station will transform and take guests back into the Roaring Twenties with jazz music, burlesque dancers, DJs and an open bar.

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