January 2016

Platinum Lace Corset Harness

Strap-ons are very fun toys, but finding a good one can be a challenge. That’s why we like this one so much. You’d want something like this to look hot when you wear it, but…


SM 101

  This is not a new book. It has been around for years and has remained one of the standard texts for people who want to learn about SM, short for Sadism/Masochism. The Kindle edition…


Real Sex in Mainstream Film

  Watching the dreary sex scenes in 50 Shades of Grey got me thinking about sex in mainstream movies. They do a generally terrible job of fake sex, with the minimal foreplay and  impossible positions,…


Family Jewels

  The author, Hardy Haberman, has done hundreds of workshops and lectures on this subject, having little idea how popular the topic was when he got started. Now he has two successful books on CBT,…


50 Shades of Grey

  I did not go to the theater to see 50 Shades of Grey.  Sure, it was a cultural phenomena and had gotten tons of people interested in BDSM. Even so, everyone I knew who…


Products We Won’t Review

  Most of the items on the shelf of your average sex boutique are going to provide you with some pleasure or at least something useful. However, among all the great products on the shelf,…