BDSM

50 Shades Shadier

This is not a review of 50 Shades Darker. It is more of a warning. It seems like a remarkable accomplishment to make a film worse than 50 Shades of Grey, but it is a…

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AEE – BDSM

The BDSM community was well-represented at the Adult Entertainment Expo. Kink.com presented the Lair, a special area where they did BDSM demonstrations as pictured above. We also learned the news that Kink.com will be leaving…


Kink.com

Kink.com is headquartered in San Francisco in what used to be the historic Armory building. You can read more about their building and the opportunity for tours of their porn studio in our Sexy San…


Fantasy Bondage

Bondage is a very common fantasy and researchers estimate that around 5 to 10% of the U.S. population incorporates them occasionally into their sex play. The fantasy of bondage and the reality can sometimes collide,…


Sportsheets 5 Piece Hog Tie & Cuff Set

One of the classic bondage restraint positions is the hog tie. The Sportsheets 5 Piece Hog Tie set includes four Sportsheets adjustable cuffs and one steel O-ring base with 4 attachment points. There have been…


What a BDSM Club is Really Like

BDSM clubs tend to be quite a bit different from the swing clubs we wrote about in Eyes Wide Open: What Swing Clubs are Really Like. Many of the BDSM clubs do not allow sex…


The Artisan’s Book of Fetishcraft

While the audience for this book is admittedly small, for those with an interest the information inside is extremely useful. This large format paperback gives detailed instructions on how to make a variety of items…


Practicing Restraint

Spanking is very popular with a lot of couples, but I would not be surprised if bondage was actually much more popular. It does not involve any pain, and it allows you to submit to…


Sportsheets Rubber Whips

We have a few more whips in the house than the average person, I suspect. One is made of exquisitely soft doeskin, some are made of leather, they come in different lengths, some have professionally…


Dom Con

I have been a journalist for 20 years, covering a wide variety of conventions, but never have so many vendors enthusiastically offered to hurt me. Time and time again I extended an arm to allow…