Publications

Wide Open

I enjoyed the book, and thought it was well-written, insightful, and interesting, but not for any of the reasons I thought I might. On the back cover it describes the author as someone who “challenges…

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Calendar Girls (and Boys)

Nude calendars have been around since the early 1900s. The first documented nude calendar was printed in 1913. You can learn the fascinating story behind the painting used on that calendar by visiting the Journalism…


Opening Up

If you are interested in alternatives to monogamy, or in understanding why monogamy is so much more challenging for people than they are led to believe, this is a book you absolutely must have. For…


The Artisan’s Book of Fetishcraft

While the audience for this book is admittedly small, for those with an interest the information inside is extremely useful. This large format paperback gives detailed instructions on how to make a variety of items…



Coming Out Like a Porn Star

Both my wife and I were in a porn movie. She has been a centerfold and cover girl in an adult magazine. My wife is bisexual, we are both swingers, and we have dabbled in…


The Ultimate Guide to Solo Sex

This Fourth of July, what better topic is there than women becoming more free to take charge of their own sexuality and gaining a better understanding of how they like to be pleasured? Self pleasuring,…


On the Move by Oliver Sacks

In light of this month being proclaimed LGBT Pride Month, I thought it might be appropriate to review a book by one of my favorite writers, a writer of whom it was not generally known…


Reclaiming Goddess Sexuality

  A few thousand years ago, patriarchy took hold and things would never be the same. Where once women dominated cultures and there were Goddess centered religions, soon it would be a man’s world. There…


The Joy of Writing Sex

  The Joy of Writing Sex came out 12 years ago and quickly established itself as a standard sex writer’s resource. The updated Kindle edition brings it up into the era of the Internet, both…